personal leadership skills - page 5
Keywords: personal leadership skills motivation patience
By Gio on 05/03/2008
Level: BTEC National Diploma
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went into the session prepared. If I hadn’t have owned up students may have got injured because their body was not prepared for the physical activity.
To experience the disappointment and disapproval from those you love, respect and whom you wish to seek approval from, is a way in learning that being dishonest is a sure way to upsetting people. I would have to say that my father homed this across more often than my mother as he would show his disapproval and disappointment more so, as my mother was always looking to excuse or forgive me.
Most of us learned to be dishonest as children. The process often began with the realization that different behaviours result in different outcomes. For example, saying certain things (or not saying certain things) garnered desirable approval and praise, or the undesirable disapproval and censure, if not punishment. Indulgence in dishonest behaviour to get desired results was just a small step away. With time the thought processes behind such actions get so entrenched in our subconscious mind that one is not even aware of them. A time comes when one loses the capacity to know when and where to draw the line. Here are a few ways that you can teach yourself to be honest.
Recognizing where you have been dishonest in the past can help you identify patterns and stop them from continuing.
Think honestly. This may sound silly, but if you don't think honestly, you won't BE honest. When you read, see, or hear something, don't make assumptions. Offer the benefit of the doubt, and be sceptical if necessary, Keep in mind a Jewish proverb: "What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth."
Practice being honest on the simple things. Abraham Lincoln became famous for going to great lengths to return a few cents that did not belong to him, hence the nickname "Honest Abe". By applying honesty to the little things, you will get in the habit of being honest in general.
Exercise tact. We all know that being literally honest can hurt feelings and turn friendships sour. It can also be misinterpreted as criticism or a lack of support. It's very tempting to tell a "white lie" when dealing with sensitive loved ones (especially children), but you can still be honest by being creative in how you express the truth.
o Emphasize the positive. Shift the focus away from what, in all honesty,
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